I hope you read this article before you sign up for an expensive program or spend money on expensive books or information packages.
First of all, it is important to give yourself a pat on the back for simply reading this article in the first place. The first step to finding a solution is admitting that you have a problem. A good many people simply get themselves deeper and deeper into trouble and debt because they do not want to admit they have a problem. Or worse, they know they have a problem but do not want to let those closest to them know that the problem is serious.
Second, you may take comfort in knowing that you are not alone. Credit problems are a growing epidemic across the globe today. Banks make it all too easy to obtain credit and to quickly accumulate debt and most people today are not really taught how to manage their money. Add to this a high-consumption society obsessed with various status symbols from clothing to cars and you have a sure-fire recipe for disaster.
Finally, and most important, you can repair your damaged credit and you can do it yourself for free.
The first and most important step is to collect all your information in one place. This includes how much you owe on each credit card and the details such as interest rate and minimum payment.
Now, call each of these credit card companies and close the account. Then cut up each card. This is important. First, you are eliminating your ability to rack up more debt and forcing yourself to face up to the reality of living within your means. But you are also taking the first step to handling your current situation. It is better on your credit report if you have closed the account while still in good standing.
Now comes the more difficult and challenging period. Handling the money you owe itself. For the first month do not make any credit card payments. Not even minimum balances. If you have money you planned for this purpose then set that money aside. Before you can begin addressing your debt you will also need to make arrangements for you daily life. You need to make a realistic budget that fits your income and then live within it. This is how you will avoid accumulating more debt in the future.
Once you have a good handle on your situation--you know your income, you know your budget, you know your debt--it is time to look at how you can solve the problem. You may find that you want to work with a law firm or agency, but my personal experience is that you are better off making that your last resort rather than your first. They can be very expensive and usually charge you based on a percentage of your debt -- so the more you can do to cut down that debt the more money you will save.
So what can you do yourself? A lot! Perhaps you can save one-third to one-half of your debt within a few months or acquire that amount through a home equity loan or some another financial maneuvering. Once you have some money on hand and you have let your credit card payments lapse for at least a month it is time to get to work. Call the company and tell them that you are in financial difficulties. Think up all your sad stories ahead of time so you have them handy and clear in your mind. Then tell the company that you are looking at various options including bankruptcy and working with a program but would really like to do this yourself (believe me, most companies would rather deal with you than a lawyer or professional negotiator). Then offer to pay one-third of what you owe. Some companies may work with you over the next months (while you are hopefully saving still more money) and eventually settle for an amount much less than what you originally owed. Others may offer a special program. There may also be a few companies that will not work with you in any way. If you run into those then you may want to call in professional help or just simply pay them off.
It will not be easy and it will likely be stressful, but in the end you can save yourself a whole lot of money and your credit will be looking good again. You can repair your credit yourself and give you and your family a bright future.
Self Help On Relationships
1. Learn to think differently: We are who we are and do what we do because of how we think about stuff. Because of our experiences and life influences so far, our minds have learned to respond – or react – to situations and events in a set way. To change our life, we need to change the way we think about these things. We need to change our perspective of life.
This principle is the foundation for every – I repeat… every – valid self-help program or concept that has ever existed. Once we accept that as being true, we can start working on the details.
2. Adopt a positive approach to life: Positive thoughts, attitudes and inputs (from any source including the people we spend time with) will influence our life in a positive way. Our positive thoughts and words about events, other people and especially ourselves will accelerate our transition to a better life. Positives help produce more positives. It’s just the way it works.
3. Look for life’s lessons: We all have a lot to learn about ourselves, other people and the world we live in. Life will, without fail, provide us with the opportunity to learn – especially from the uncomfortable events or situations. It just makes sense to pay attention to the things that are happening to us and learn from them as quickly as possible so we can move on to the next (and perhaps, easier) lesson.
4. Ask questions: In a positive way, question the concepts, principles and “truths" that are prompting you to think, believe - and as a result, act - in the way you do. Commonly, at least some of the information we have received in our lifetime tends to be misleading and therefore, inhibits our ability to do those things we need to do to move on toward a better, more enjoyable lifestyle. Be open even to answers that vary considerably from your present viewpoint. They may hold a key “truth" that will open the doors to a whole new world.
5. Get spiritually connected: Tune in to whomever or whatever you believe is your spiritual teacher or mentor. Listen. Learn to follow your “gut feelings". I am convinced that we are all a part of something far greater than this physical world we experience every day. And, from what I have seen and experienced, allowing this spiritual realm to play a greater role in our lives helps immensely with our transition to a happier, more enjoyable life.
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