Everyone makes mistakes. It's a given. We're all human after all. But some mistakes can not only be humiliating, but can be costly in time and money. It's bad enough to be involved in a deal gone wrong due to mistakes. How much worse if you're the one making the mistakes. Of course we can learn from mistakes. But why must we only learn from our own mistakes? There are some mistakes which any potential house buyer can learn from without having to make them.
An example is someone who merely gets cold feet and backs out of a deal. Or someone who has the money for buying a house, but makes poor choices and spends it on luxury instead of the house as planned. Some people are merely nervous and begin making unnecessary risks. The media can be responsible for making some buyers have cold feet by introducing or enhancing fear of failure by introducing information which may be confusing or seem worse for you than it really is.
There are some tips to avoiding making some mistakes, though.
The most important thing is to understand the buying process before getting started. Some of the mistakes merely come from lack of knowledge of the process or by having unrealistic ideas of what to expect. First you need to determine how expensive of a home you can afford. This is vital in not biting off more than you can chew and basically having to spit halfway through a deal. You also need to plan for financial changes as they can considerably change whether or not you will be able to make payments in the future. Next you need to think of things as a team instead of as an individual. If you think of the whole process as a loner, that's where you'll most likely end up being. A good realtor and lender are vital in the process of purchasing a home successfully. Make sure to talk with and get to know those on your team and they will be concerned with long term success instead of merely finishing a deal and moving on. And finally, don't blindly search the internet for a perfect home. If you are going to search for one online at all, speak with your team first and obtain a list if at all possible. Otherwise you may find yourself in a sea of too much choice without any hope not to drown.