Choosing a Life Partner

By: Dalip Singh Wasan

Choosing a life partner
Dalip Singh Wasan, Advocate.

It is an old saying that all life partners are set in Heaven and we all perform just rituals and unite here on this earth. This saying has come down from those who are believer in God and they are not in a position to say that they too can do something on this earth beyond the fate and destiny written by God. But the man on this earth has gone some steps further, now the man on this earth has started saying that he too can do something. The man is having vocational guidance, sitting in competitions and is getting admissions in new professions, trades, callings and employments which have been established because of advancements in science and technology and they are going ahead and they are not following the occupation which their forefathers had been doing. similarly the people are now having love marriages and they are trying to find out a suitable match through news papers too and they are trying to examine all the aspects and all the qualities of the would be life partner and they consider all these points and only then they decide to marry or not to marry. Therefore, the old concept of marriage has gone and now if the selection had been on the wrong side, we are noting that the couples are coming to the Courts for the dissolution of marriages or they may be starting living separately.
Therefore, time has come when we all should be wise enough to choose a life partner and that too very wisely.

First of all we should have an introspection and we should examine what is in our mind. What type of life partner we want and if some results are coming from our inside, we should honour that wish of us and while locating a life partner, we should take into consideration all these points. We are to marry, then we shall be establishing a family, then we shall be having children and so many other responsibilities and we should be too to take up all these targets. If we are not one at heart, we shall be facing so many difficulties. There could be chances that the husband alone shall be discharging all the responsibilities or there could be chances when only the wife is disposing off all the works and the husband is not helping. Therefore, they are one at heart, then there shall united efforts in all walks of like and when power of two is united it becomes power of eleven people. We should take up all these things in our mind when we are in search of a life partner and there should not be a failure on our part because if we could not have a right choice, we shall suffer during the whole remaining period of our life and there shall be none who shall help us and give us a new direction. Once married, it is final because it is very difficult to have new experiences in married life. It is a cumbersome rehearsal to have a divorce and then to find out a new companion. The first marriage should be first and the last and rehearsals time and again are not feasible in married life. Once married and divorced, the man or the woman becomes a second-hand commodity and they lose all the value in the market. Therefore, we should not think that if our married life is not normal, we shall be having another marriage, because such rehearsals shall be time consuming and without any results. So when we have vocational guidance, we should also get guidance and also we should talk to our own heart and we should try to choose a right life partner because this is always final and this course is a base on which our whole life shall depend.
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