Have your instincts been kicking in and telling you that you may have a cheating husband? These are natural feelings developed to warn and protect you. Are you suspicious of various changes in your husband, his characteristics, mannerisms and behavioral patterns?



Monogamy is essential in many of modern marriages, it may be very important to you for a long; lasting relationship. Suspecting that you have a cheating husband can be hurtful and infuriating. However, before just assuming that you have a cheating husband you do need concrete proof before confronting him. Here you will find 6 ways to catch a cheating husband.

1. One of the first signs of a cheating husband deals with their emotions and their behavior, since his emotions influence his behavioral patterns. If you have been together for a long time you will already be accustom to his common behaviors, whereas being a newly wed it make take a bit longer for you to catch on to any deceit. Does it seem that he no longer confides in you or shares his views of the work day? Are there times when he becomes angry over the smallest of issues and then storms from the house after a spat? It may be that he is using a fight in order to leave the house to be with the other woman. Are there increases in his work hours but not on his pay stub from work? You should always be aware of those times when there are emotional and behavioral changes such as anxiety and depression.

2. Where does he spend time and does it seem he has distanced himself from you or seem withdrawn while you are together? Has he changed any of his regular patterns of spending time with you? These are all good questions for you to address, nevertheless you should keep in mind that sometimes he does need alone time or time to spend with his family or friends and that he just may be working overtime to make more money.

3. Are you experiencing a lot of hang up calls? Does he not answer the phone when you are around or leave the room to speak to someone on the phone? If he is using a cell phone you may be able to track his conversations by looking through the phone records of the cell phone to find out who he is speaking too. Remember to keep a written list of the date and time when these calls occur for later reference. However, you should put this list away for safe keeping so it is not accidentally found by your husband.

4. Does he come home late from work often? If so, you can check for suspicious scents while giving him a hug when he comes through the door. Scents that should not be present after working are smoke, alcohol, sex or any type of unusual scents or perfumes.

5. Drop in unexpectedly at his place of employment or at the restaurant you know that he frequents while on lunch break. If you find the opportunity to do so without being caught you may want to look through his desk at work or in his trash container to see if there are any condoms or wrappers thrown out as well as any notes or unfamiliar telephone numbers. Check his office calendar while you are there for any suspicious dates or numbers. Are there any suspicious photographs on his desk or bookcase?

6. Does he spend an extensive amount of time online? If so he may be talking with the other woman. If this concerns you, you may want to invest in remote monitoring computer software that allows you to view prior conversations. With the use of such software you can even track where he goes online as well as his passwords for accessing the sites.